build: rely on engines to prevent using npm for dependency install (#22643)

Rather than relying on a preinstall script, set `engine-strict` to `true` in a project `.npmrc` file, relying on the `engines` having `npm` set to note that yarn should be used instead

(cherry picked from commit 00c73e3)

Author: damingerdai

.npmrc

@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+engine-strict = true

package.json

@@ -10,7 +10,8 @@
   "license": "MIT",
   "engines": {
     "node": ">=12.0.0 <16.0.0",
-    "yarn": ">= 1.0.0"
+    "yarn": ">= 1.0.0",
+    "npm": "Please use Yarn instead of NPM to install dependencies. See: https://yarnpkg.com/lang/en/docs/install/"
   },
   "scripts": {
     "postinstall": "node tools/postinstall/apply-patches.js && ngcc --properties module main --create-ivy-entry-points && node tools/postinstall/update-ngcc-main-fields.js",
@@ -31,7 +32,6 @@
     "check-release-output": "ts-node --project tools/release/tsconfig.json tools/release/check-release-output.ts",
     "check-rollup-globals": "ts-node --project scripts/tsconfig.json scripts/check-rollup-globals.ts",
     "changelog": "ts-node --project tools/release/tsconfig.json tools/release/changelog.ts",
-    "preinstall": "node ./tools/npm/check-npm.js",
     "format": "yarn ng-dev format changed",
     "cherry-pick-patch": "ts-node --project tools/cherry-pick-patch/tsconfig.json tools/cherry-pick-patch/cherry-pick-patch.ts",
     "ownerslint": "ts-node --project scripts/tsconfig.json scripts/ownerslint.ts",