implement more arguments in open_excel (and read_excel in some cases)

[gdementen]

Now that xlwings books.open support many more arguments, we should add support for them too (or at least some of them):

update_links=None, read_only=None, format=None, password=None, write_res_password=None, ignore_read_only_recommended=None, origin=None, delimiter=None, editable=None, notify=None, converter=None, add_to_mru=None, local=None, corrupt_load=None

at least update_links, read_only and password would be useful for us, but some (all?) of the others too.

Ref: https://docs.xlwings.org/en/stable/api/book.html#xlwings.Book