derive(Hash) for P2P messages

In other languages (Java and C#, notably), overriding `Eq` without
overriding `Hash` can lead to surprising or broken behavior. Even
in Rust, its usually the case that you actually want both. Here we
add missing `Hash` derivations for P2P messages, to at least
address the first pile of warnings the C# compiler dumps.

Author: TheBlueMatt