consolidated deprecations (#7516)

Author: mtrezza

DEPRECATIONS.md

@@ -2,9 +2,10 @@
 
 The following is a list of deprecations, according to the [Deprecation Policy](https://github.com/parse-community/parse-server/blob/master/CONTRIBUTING.md#deprecation-policy). After a feature becomes deprecated, and giving developers time to adapt to the change, the deprecated feature will eventually be removed, leading to a breaking change. Developer feedback during the deprecation period may postpone the introduction of the breaking change.
 
-| Feature                                       | Issue                                                                | Deprecation [ℹ️][i_deprecation] | Planned Removal [ℹ️][i_removal] | Status [ℹ️][i_status] | Notes |
-|-----------------------------------------------|----------------------------------------------------------------------|---------------------------------|---------------------------------|-----------------------|-------|
-| Native MongoDB syntax in aggregation pipeline | [#7338](https://github.com/parse-community/parse-server/issues/7338) | 5.0.0 (2022)                    | 6.0.0 (2023)                    | deprecated            | -     |
+| Change                                          | Issue                                                                | Deprecation [ℹ️][i_deprecation] | Planned Removal [ℹ️][i_removal] | Status [ℹ️][i_status] | Notes |
+|-------------------------------------------------|----------------------------------------------------------------------|---------------------------------|---------------------------------|-----------------------|-------|
+| Native MongoDB syntax in aggregation pipeline   | [#7338](https://github.com/parse-community/parse-server/issues/7338) | 5.0.0 (2022)                    | 6.0.0 (2023)                    | deprecated            | -     |
+| Config option `directAccess` defaults to `true` | [#6636](https://github.com/parse-community/parse-server/pull/6636)   | 5.0.0 (2022)                    | 6.0.0 (2023)                    | deprecated            | -     |
 
 [i_deprecation]: ## "The version and date of the deprecation."
 [i_removal]: ## "The version and date of the planned removal."

README.md

@@ -742,11 +742,7 @@ Logs are also viewable in Parse Dashboard.
 
 # Deprecations
 
-The following Parse Server options and APIs are deprecated and will change in future versions. The "Deprecation" version indicates from when an item has been deprecated with runtime warnings. The "End-of-Life" version indicates when the deprecation period has ended and the breaking change came into effect. In rare cases, deprecations may be revoked without any breaking change coming into effect.
-
-| Type   | Item           | Deprecation | End-of-Life | Details                                 |
-|--------|----------------|-------------|-------------|-----------------------------------------|
-| Option | `directAccess` | `5.0.0`     | tbd         | Default changes from `false` to `true`. |
+See the [Deprecation Plan](https://github.com/parse-community/parse-server/blob/master/DEPRECATIONS.md) for an overview of deprecations and planned breaking changes.
 
 # Live Query