adapt writeToolsVersion(at:version:fs:) to using the new ToolsVersionLoader.split(_:)

This allows the old `ToolsVersionLoader.split(_:)` and `regex` to be fully removed instead of just deprecated.

In implementing this change, the logic of the new `ToolsVersionLoader.split(_:)` is updated for the following 2 purposes:

1. Primarily to partially match the old `split(_:)`'s behaviour in deciding if the label of the Swift tools version specification is malformed.

2. Secondarily to provide a special path of diagnosis for when the label is prefixed with "swift-tools-version:" (case-insensitive). The comments left in the source provides much better details.

Author: WowbaggersLiquidLunch

CHANGELOG.md

@@ -15,7 +15,9 @@ Swift 5.3.1
 
   * API Removal
 
-    `ToolsVersionLoader.Error.malformedToolsVersion(specifier: String, currentToolsVersion: ToolsVersion)` is now obsoleted, and replaced by `ToolsVersionLoader.Error.malformedToolsVersionSpecification(_ malformation: ToolsVersionSpecificationMalformation)`.
+    `ToolsVersionLoader.Error.malformedToolsVersion(specifier: String, currentToolsVersion: ToolsVersion)` is replaced by `ToolsVersionLoader.Error.malformedToolsVersionSpecification(_ malformation: ToolsVersionSpecificationMalformation)`.
+    
+    `ToolsVersionLoader.split(_ bytes: ByteString) -> (versionSpecifier: String?, rest: [UInt8])` and `ToolsVersionLoader.regex` are together replaced by `ToolsVersionLoader.split(_ manifest: String) -> ManifestComponents`.
 
   * Source Breakages for Swift Packages