Infer automatically cross compile hosts for macOS package presets

Addresses rdar://98787335, apple#60348

Author: edymtt

utils/build-presets.ini

@@ -1237,7 +1237,7 @@ release-debuginfo
 compiler-vendor=apple
 
 # Cross compile for Apple Silicon
-cross-compile-hosts=macosx-arm64
+infer-cross-compile-hosts-on-darwin
 
 lldb-use-system-debugserver
 lldb-build-type=Release