Fix MemoryLifetimeVerifier and SIL verifier to handle trivial deinitialization

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Fix SILVerifier isConsumingOrMutatingArgumentConvention

Consuming a trivial type has no effect, so we return false in that
case. SILGen avoids generating copies and destroys for trivial types when
ownership would otherwise require it.

Fix MemoryLifetimeVerifier to handle trivial deinitialization

Nontrivial values are never deinitialized. SILGen knows this and
avoids emitting copies and destroys for trivial types. This results in
apparent violations of the memory's initialization state.

Fixes rdar://108001491 (SIL verification failed:
Found mutating consuming use of an in_guaranteed parameter?!:
!ImmutableAddressUseVerifier().isMutatingOrConsuming(fArg))

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@swift-ci test

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@swift-ci test source compatibility

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@swift-ci benchmark

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Unrelated

swift-distributed-actors/Sources/DistributedActorsTestKit/ActorTestKit.swift:16:18: error: module 'DistributedCluster' was not compiled for testing
@testable import DistributedCluster
~~~~~~~~~~       ^
error: fatalError

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I decided to investigate whether the optimizations that cause these verifier failures can be avoided. So this may have been wasted effort.

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Here is an alternate fix for SILGen: #65579

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Fixed by: #65579