perf(column-resize): Further defer initial min/max column size application to reduce layout thrashing (#20238)

(cherry picked from commit 3ce4452)

Author: kseamon

src/cdk-experimental/column-resize/resizable.ts

@@ -94,13 +94,15 @@ export abstract class Resizable<HandleComponent extends ResizeOverlayHandle>
   }
 
   ngAfterViewInit() {
-    this._viewInitialized = true;
-
     this._listenForRowHoverEvents();
     this._listenForResizeEvents();
     this._appendInlineHandle();
-    this._applyMinWidthPx();
-    this._applyMaxWidthPx();
+
+    this.styleScheduler.scheduleEnd(() => {
+      this._viewInitialized = true;
+      this._applyMinWidthPx();
+      this._applyMaxWidthPx();
+    });
   }
 
   ngOnDestroy(): void {