Use Prisms instead of using annotations directly

[SentryMan]

Unfortunately, I still had to use the shade plugin to get it to work on a modular project.

• use prisms instead of annotation
• use antrun plugin to remove shaded deps from module-info
• use moditect plugin to add modules-info into shaded jars
• adds support for jakarta Email/Size/etc annotations
• now reads all tag annotations from an element

Relies on avaje/avaje-prisms#7

[SentryMan]

I think I'm good with this