Monitor members to the same stream in stream connection (backport #9572) (backport #9576)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #9576 done by Mergify.
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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/src/rabbit_stream_reader.erl
	modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/test/rabbit_stream_SUITE_data/src/test/java/com/rabbitmq/stream/FailureTest.java
	modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/test/rabbit_stream_SUITE_data/src/test/java/com/rabbitmq/stream/Host.java
	modified:   deps/rabbitmq_stream/test/rabbit_stream_SUITE_data/src/test/java/com/rabbitmq/stream/TestUtils.java

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